Michael says
I was talking to someone this AM and mentioned that I really don’t think I hold many grudges. I did once hate someone who undermined my work in a terrible way but I’ve gotten over it. I guess I used to hate my father, but later in life grew pretty fond of him. Probably hated my first wife, but I don’t think I do any more. But I also think that perhaps it has to do with my bad memory; and that my memory isn’t particularly visual, so I just don’t relive hurts and can’t even remember many of them. However, I just wonder if this is really indifference rather than forgiveness. This is something I want to think about.